Kariana and I stayed with Grandma and Grandpa Bergen for a few days and I think the theme of the trip was picking up sticks. I mention this because this type-A mom constantly worries about Kariana's playtime activities. Is her playtime structured enough? Is it too structured? Is she learning anything? Honestly, these thoughts keep me awake at night even though I already feel like a harried parent racing off to music class, swim class and playgroup each week. It's back-to-school time and many of Kariana's peers are starting mother's-day-out programs this fall. We've opted to keep Kariana home until next fall. Again, the second guessing and questioning. Should I add another activity this fall to compensate? Does she already have too many activities? But then I take a deep breath and watch Kariana. She is perfectly happy picking up sticks, collecting rocks and chasing bugs. I honestly believe that perhaps we may be overscheduling our kids in an earnest attempt to raise smart ones. Give me a break - Kariana isn't even two yet and most of the time she is still fascinated by light switches! This is what toddlers do!
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